Estate Planning

Estate planning is how you decide who gets what, who handles things if you can’t, and how to spare your family from court, taxes, and conflict after you’re gone. A complete plan is rarely about money alone — it covers medical decisions, guardianship, charitable wishes, and the practical mechanics of transferring accounts. These guides walk through the foundational documents and decisions, the tools that pass assets cleanly outside of probate, and the life events — divorce, widowhood, long-term care — that should trigger a review.

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Start Here: Foundational Concepts

Three guides that anchor everything else. Estate planning as a discipline, the beneficiary designations that quietly control more of your assets than your will does, and the inherited-IRA rules that catch many heirs by surprise — especially since the SECURE Act changed the timeline.

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What Is Estate Planning?

The full picture: wills, trusts, powers of attorney, advance directives, and beneficiary designations — what each one does and which combinations most households need.

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What Is a Beneficiary?

Beneficiary designations on IRAs, 401(k)s, life insurance, and bank accounts override your will. Why getting these right is the single highest-leverage estate move most people overlook.

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Inherited IRA Rules

What heirs need to know about the 10-year rule, RMDs on inherited retirement accounts, and the tax traps that can erase a significant portion of an inheritance.

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Estate Tools & Life-Stage Decisions

Specific tools and life events that change what an estate plan needs to cover — from how a joint account passes to a survivor, to how divorce splits retirement accounts, to how long-term care can quietly drain an estate before it ever transfers.

Life Insurance for Seniors

How life insurance fits into an estate at 60+: final-expense policies, whether to keep existing coverage, and how proceeds pass to beneficiaries outside of probate.

Survivor Benefits Guide

Social Security survivor benefits for widows and widowers — eligibility, claim timing, how remarriage affects benefits, and what the surviving spouse’s monthly check actually looks like.

Joint Bank Accounts

Joint tenancy with right of survivorship, payable-on-death accounts, and how each option transfers cash outside probate — plus the risks of adding someone to your account for "convenience."

Selling Home in Retirement: Capital Gains

The $250K/$500K capital-gains exclusion, the stepped-up basis for inherited homes, and how the sale of a primary residence interacts with the rest of an estate.

Retirement & Divorce

Splitting 401(k)s and pensions through a QDRO, dividing IRAs, the impact on Social Security claims, and the estate-plan updates that absolutely have to follow a divorce.

How to Plan for Long-Term Care Costs

Long-term care can consume $100K+ per year. How LTC insurance, Medicaid planning, and home equity protect (or expose) the assets you intended to pass on.


The Six Core Documents & Concepts

The vocabulary of estate planning — what each document actually does, who it’s for, and how the pieces fit together. Read these six in any order; together they cover roughly 80% of what most households need to understand before sitting down with a planning attorney.

What Is a Will?

The cornerstone document of nearly every estate plan. What a will controls, what it doesn’t (beneficiary designations override it), DIY vs attorney, and when to update.

What Is a Trust?

Revocable vs irrevocable, the common types (living trust, ILIT, special-needs, QTIP, charitable), what they cost, and when they save real money — or don’t.

What Is Power of Attorney?

Durable vs springing, financial vs healthcare, what your agent can do, how to choose well, and why an outdated or non-durable POA causes the worst problems at the worst time.

What Is an Advance Directive?

Living wills, healthcare powers of attorney, and POLST/MOLST forms — what end-of-life decisions they cover, and how to get the right state form for free.

What Is Probate?

The court process for settling an estate — what goes through it vs passes outside, typical time and cost (2–7% of estate), and the strategies that actually avoid it.

What Is an Executor?

The executor role: 6–18 month timeline, what they actually do, compensation, fiduciary duty and personal liability, and how to choose (or decline) the role.


Practical Estate Planning Decisions

Six tactical guides that turn the concepts into action — how to actually write the will, who to name as guardian, how to handle digital assets and crypto, when to update the plan, the blended-family traps that catch most people, and the funeral document that spares your family in the hardest week.

How to Write a Will

Step-by-step: what to gather, the decisions a will has to make, DIY vs attorney, signing correctly (where most DIY wills fail), where to store the original.

Naming Guardians for Minor Children

The highest-stakes decision in any parent’s estate plan. Guardian of the person vs estate, how to choose, the conversation to have, naming backups, how the money side works.

Digital Asset Estate Planning

Passwords, crypto, email, photos, online accounts. RUFADAA priority order, platform legacy tools, password-manager handoff, and why self-custody crypto without a seed-phrase plan is permanently lost.

When to Update Your Estate Plan

Calendar reviews every 3–5 years plus triggered reviews after marriage, divorce, births, deaths, moves, and major financial changes — with the review checklist to work through.

Estate Planning for Blended Families

Why the default plan (“everything to my spouse, then to the kids”) often leaves the deceased’s children with nothing. QTIP trusts, ILITs, beneficiary carve-outs, and the conversations to have.

Funeral and Final Arrangements

Pre-planning without pre-paying, organ donation, typical costs ($700 direct cremation to $15,000 traditional burial), and the one-page final instructions document that spares your family in the hardest week.


Estate Taxes, Trusts & Advanced Strategies

Six guides for the next layer of planning — choosing between a living trust and a will, keeping assets out of probate, how estate and gift taxes actually work (most families owe nothing), protecting a loved one with a disability without losing their benefits, and giving to the causes you care about in a tax-smart way.

Living Trust vs Will

They do different jobs, and many families use both. Probate, privacy, cost, incapacity, and guardians compared — and why a trust only works if it’s actually funded.

How to Avoid Probate

Much of your estate can pass to heirs outside probate. Beneficiary designations, POD/TOD registrations, a living trust, and survivorship ownership — plus the mistakes that send assets back to court.

Estate Taxes Explained

Most estates owe no federal estate tax — only the amount above a very high exemption. Estate vs inheritance tax, state death taxes, the marital deduction, and step-up in basis.

Gift Tax & Gifting Strategies

Almost no one pays gift tax. The annual exclusion, the lifetime exemption backstop, gifts that don’t count at all, and strategies to help family while shrinking a taxable estate.

Special Needs Trusts

An inheritance can disqualify a loved one with a disability from Medicaid and SSI. How a special needs trust provides for them while preserving benefits — and the two main types.

Charitable Giving in Your Estate Plan

Support the causes you care about and give tax-efficiently. Bequests and beneficiary designations, donor-advised funds and charitable trusts, and how to get the most impact.


Estate Planning Essentials You Might Be Missing

Six more guides for the gaps that trip up even careful planners — what really happens if you never make a will, why an old beneficiary form can override your will entirely, what it actually takes to fund a living trust, how to choose the right person for the job, planning for a relationship the law doesn’t automatically protect, and putting life insurance to work as a real estate-planning tool.

What Happens If You Die Without a Will?

Dying intestate means a fixed state formula decides who inherits — and it can leave out an unmarried partner, a stepchild, or anyone outside your legal family.

Transfer-on-Death & Payable-on-Death Designations

Retirement accounts, life insurance, and POD/TOD accounts pass directly to whoever is named on the form — overriding your will entirely.

How to Fund a Living Trust

A living trust only avoids probate for assets actually retitled into it. What funding means, and the unfunded-trust trap that leaves a signed document doing nothing.

Choosing an Executor or Trustee

The role carries real duties and can last for years. Family member vs. professional fiduciary, and a few rules of thumb for choosing well.

Estate Planning for Unmarried Couples

Marriage brings automatic inheritance and medical-decision rights that unmarried and domestic partners don’t get by default. The documents that close the gap.

Using Life Insurance in Your Estate Plan

More than income replacement — providing liquidity without a forced sale, naming the right beneficiary, and how an ILIT keeps proceeds out of the taxable estate.

Latest Estate Planning Articles

  • Using Life Insurance in Your Estate Plan
    Life insurance is more than income replacement — it can provide estate liquidity without a forced asset sale, and for larger estates, an ILIT can keep the payout outside your taxable estate entirely.
  • Estate Planning for Unmarried and Domestic Partners
    Marriage comes with automatic inheritance rights and medical decision-making authority — unmarried and domestic partners get none of it by default. The documents that recreate that protection deliberately.
  • Choosing an Executor or Trustee: Family Member vs. Professional
    The role carries real duties and can last for years. What an executor and trustee actually do, the trade-offs between a family member and a professional fiduciary, and a few rules of thumb for choosing well.
  • How to Fund a Living Trust (So It Actually Works)
    A living trust only avoids probate for assets actually retitled into it. What funding a trust means, which assets need it, and the unfunded-trust trap that leaves a signed document accomplishing nothing.
  • Transfer-on-Death and Payable-on-Death Designations
    Retirement accounts, life insurance, and POD/TOD accounts pass directly to whoever is named on the form — bypassing your will entirely. How these designations work, and the mistake that catches families off guard.
  • What Happens If You Die Without a Will?
    Dying without a will means your state’s default inheritance formula decides who gets your property — and it can leave out an unmarried partner, a stepchild, or anyone outside your legal family entirely.

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